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30 Days of Kink – Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Woo hoo!  Halfway there!  Also, yesterday’s post was my 80th post, which I feel pretty fantastic about.

So I had a second with today’s prompt where I couldn’t think of anything.  And then, of course, I thought of, like, five things all at once.  Here are some of those things:

-I want a chastity belt real bad.  I really, really like the idea of Garnet being able to lock me up and control my access to my own bits like that.  Bonus if it can be used as a strap-in harness.

-Sutures.  This is one of those things that I really like the idea of but know that I do not yet have the pain tolerance for.  Similar to the above, I am really into the idea of Garnet sewing up my cunt if she wants to, and I’ve mentioned before that I am furiously turned on by the possibility of her sewing my mouth shut.  I need to work on this pain tolerance thing.

-Sounding.  This is a big one.  It’s really, really scary to me, which I find really, really exciting.  It’s also a level of bodily control that just seems above and beyond most other stuff.  The thought of Garnet having that amount of power over my body, to penetrate a hole that does not get penetrated pretty much ever, to have her own my body that completely, is profoundly thrilling.  And I’ve read that the g-spot stimulation that can be achieved that way is intense.

There are also lots and lots of role play type scenarios I want to try and just haven’t gotten around to.  I wish I had more time and that planning more elaborate stuff myself didn’t make me feel like I was being bossy or demanding. 

The 30 Days of Kink meme can be found here.

3 Responses to “30 Days of Kink – Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.”

  1.   1.25 Says:

    I don't know if this helps, but in my big relationship, I did a lot of the planning for this stuff — okay, all of it. And there was a lot of it. Instead of feeling like I was being bossy, I kind of felt more like I was arranging things for him in an almost servicey way. Like making him an awesome dinner he would like, or cleaning his room, or throwing a party, with no detail overlooked. I don't know whether that kind of mindset might work for you too, but maybe!

  2.   Garnet Says:

    "I wish I had more time and that planning more elaborate stuff myself didn't make me feel like I was being bossy or demanding."Write it in a story and I'll take the hint! Well… if I can find a compliant tentacle creature. :3

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